JM: Let me know when you have the solution.
The IM came across my screen late at night several years ago. Myself and my team were working insane hours trying to do the "impossible." Despite the confidence of my colleague, I truly had no idea where to find the answer we needed. Given the late hour, my normal dedication to task and to team was also at threat of serious erosion due to extreme exhaustion. I knew I wasn't alone in that.
When we started that project, we were warned it would be a futile effort. We were told the can of worms we would open trying to improve the customer's situation wouldn't be worth the hassle of dealing with their naivety and lack of cohesive direction.
Sure, sure, we were told, the pay-off at every level--business impact, technological impact, financial impact--could be huge, but the odds? Only a fool would go for them when there are easier projects available with--true--less gain, but also much less risk.
Were those people wrong? Not completely. It was tough. It did test us. We suffered a few late night. We got frustrated with each other, voices may have risen on occasion. Persistence meant digging deep more than once, but laughter was always only a moment away. We learned a whole heck of a lot. And in the end? We not only succeeded, but we blew the odds right out of the water.
I am not ashamed to say I fell in love with those people. We did something great, something I am proud of to this day. I am glad we didn't settle for an easier project or path.
Success is taking the opportunities handed to you. It's listening to the experience of others, striving to learn from their mistakes, but at the end of the day following no one's voice but your own. If there is a whisper which says you can--no matter how faint--you trust that, you follow that... and you won't ever go wrong.